Exhausted from Living Out of Alignment? Four Steps to Realign Your Life and Feel Energized Again
Are you feeling stressed, stuck or burned out in a certain area of your life?
Maybe it's your career, a relationship or a specific situation.
Whatever it is, it just isn’t working for you anymore— even though you continue trying to slog through it.
The truth is, living out of alignment with who you've become is exhausting. I’m currently going through a situation like this and I’m amazed by how draining it is.
As you resist moving forward out of fear, the more your life force energy gets depleted trying to make something work that just isn't working for you anymore. At this point, it’s time to shift your focus and energy into what feels more aligned, authentic, exciting and fulfilling!
Signs You’re Living Out of Alignment
Do any of these resonate?
Fatigue; feeling drained or burned out
Feeling blocked or stalled out
Flow of creativity and ideas have dried up
Low mood, sadness, anger, frustration
Things appear to be falling apart or blowing up
If you resonate with some of these…it’s okay! No need to spiral into panic, guilt or shame.
This is actually a huge indicator of your inner growth and evolution. Feel proud of yourself! You’ve grown, learned lessons and matured on your path.
The Tower tarot card reminds me of this “falling apart” energy that takes place when our lives attempt to realign in a new, authentic way.
If you never grew, your life would always stay the same— and your soul did not come here for a boring life. You incarnated to experience an incredible life full of variety, challenges to make you stronger, change and growth!
Now you’re in a limbo stage. You’re in a transition. As a soul, you’re ready for something new that matches who you’ve become, but you’re still living the old version of your life that used to fit you before. Now, it doesn’t, and that’s okay.
How to Start Realigning Your Life and Feel Energized Again
#1 Do More Things That Energize and Inspire You
This sounds obvious, but are you actually adding more of these things into your life, everyday?
This can include things like joyful exercise, favorite hobbies, nature, meditation, art or creativity, favorite music, gentle self-care and hanging out with people who make you feel connected and loved.
What do you love doing that you know will make you feel more aligned, joyful and inspired again? What does your body, heart and soul need today?
This is an easy ways to raise your frequency and connect more with the energy of your higher soul. As you do things that bring you joy, you channel more of your soul energy, which is why they feel so energizing and replenishing!
Also, notice what new ideas and inspiration come to you when you're feeling rejuvenated. Try to take action on these higher vibrational ideas and see where they magically take you!
As my brother and I wandered around Bisbee, AZ, we found this cool art truck! Travel, adventure, creativity and art always make me feel so happy and inspired again. What about you?
#2 Ask Yourself What’s No Longer Working and What You Really Want Instead
When you’re ready, honestly ask yourself…
What’s no longer working for me? What is my heart asking for instead?
Trust your intuition and your gut! These are direct lines of communication from your higher soul, which can see the bigger picture.
Don’t let your mind tear it down with logic and reason, because it will try. To keep you safe and comfortable where you are, your logical mind will try to talk you out of it. But if it’s a genuine desire, stay true to your heart.
Gift yourself permission to have what your heart wants ❤️ You are so worthy of it! It’s time to start letting it in and stepping into it with courage and excitement.
If you’re having trouble aligning with and allowing what your heart truly wants, investigate and release what might be blocking you in this blog post.
#3 Make a Gentle Plan for Change
No need to make all the changes at once and put your nervous system into a tailspin. This can backfire and send you back into paralysis.
Instead, use your intelligence to make a doable plan of how you'll gradually let go of what no longer serves you — and allow in more of what you actually do want.
To make it realistic, you could phase it over days, weeks or months depending on how big the shift is. You can go as slow or fast as feels right for you, it’s totally up to you!
The point of this is to help you start taking action. Your plan will probably change along the way, but the point of this is to help you get out of victim mode, feel empowered and get the ball rolling! A big reason why you feel stuck is probably a lack of action and forward movement.
#4 Practice a Positive Perspective Around Change
It’s so easy to dwell on fear and what you’re losing. I know this all too well!
Every morning and throughout your day, consciously remind yourself on what you’re gaining. Focus your mind on what’s coming for you, not on what you’re letting go of.
Remind yourself of the fulfilling career, or the business where you actually help people with your unique gifts, or the future partner who is better suited to you', or the supportive friendships that you want to attract in.
I’ve seen it so many time with myself and my clients, I promise! What's coming is going to be even more fulfilling for you 💖
Focus on all the beautiful things waiting for you on your journey forward!
Signs You’re Moving Back Into Alignment
As you practice these steps, notice:
Am I starting to feel better?
Do I feel more energized and inspired?
Do I feel more life force energy flowing than before?
Do I feel more “alive,” magical and playful?
These are confirmations that you're stepping toward what your soul and heart are asking for!
They’re guideposts telling you that you’re successfully letting go of the old and joyfully stepping forward into a more authentic, fulfilling version of your life.
Trust this process 🙏 Have faith that the Universe is benevolently working in your favor, at all times.
It’s time to courageously let go and allow in a more aligned and fulfilling way of life that honors who you’ve become! Focus your energy into this next chapter, not on the one you’re letting go of.
You sooo deserve this, am I right?!
Wishing you much courage and joy on your path forward 🩷
Suzie DeVoe
Associate Certified Pranic Healer
Feel More Confident, Abundance and Magnetic in Growing your Soul Business